Thank You For Kindness

Caroline is still sick with some sort of head cold that manifests itself in snot, misery and a need to be held constantly. Evan isn’t sick with anything I can identify, unless you count being incredibly three-ish a medical condition. Even my new and improved hug-my-babies-tighter-appreciate-every-moment mentality is being put to the test by his completely unreasonable screaming and hitting. I am still hugging him tighter and appreciating my children but I’m doing it while holding back tears of frustration. Those are the days when the best I can do is be thankful that tomorrow will be (HAS to be) better and I am still lucky in so many ways.

Despite the less than ideal conditions in the Davis house now life goes on, the holidays get closer, and everyone needs to be fed…which means we have to leave the house. I’ve been dreading it with every fiber of my being clenched so hard I might break a bone. At home my children can only bother me. In public they can bother everyone. Everyone just trying to get their last minute packages sent and pick up their Christmas ham and buy wrapping paper and get through the day. Everyone who probably has bigger problems than a kid with a runny nose and who don’t deserve to be coughed all over in line for coffee.

But instead of scowls and angry glares, we experienced nothing but kindness. I came home on the brink of tears (I feel like I’m always on the brink of tears these days) not because I was upset but because I was so touched by the kindness around me. Thank you, to everyone:

Thank you to my friend Sara who was extra patient and helpful with my kids during her visit, although I’m afraid I might have scared her out of ever having children.

Thank you to the elderly gentleman in the parking lot who brought me a cart when he saw me trying to bundle a whining Caroline out of the car and into the grocery store.

Thank you to the deli counter ladies who did their best to cheer Caroline up with slices of cheese and compliments.

Thank you to the meat counter guy, the produce guy, the man in the frozen section, the lady in the baking aisle and the cashier who all sympathized with me over how hard it is to get things done when your child isn’t feeling well and wished us health and happy holidays rather than judging me for bringing my sad baby out in public.

Thank you to the Toys R Us employees who were pleasant and helpful during what I know must be a really rough time of year to be a Toys R Us employee. You helped me make a little kid in New York’s Christmas wish come true.

Thank you to the woman at the post office counter who helped me label and box a last minute package while my arms were full of a toddler who wouldn’t let me put her down for even a second.

Thank you to Evan’s teachers who sent home a second jingle bell in his backpack for his sister so they can both believe in the magic of Christmas when we read The Polar Express tonight.

Thank you to everyone going out of your way to be just a little bit kinder or more patient this year. I don’t know if it’s the holiday spirit, our sense of community in Connecticut right now, or just extremely good luck that I’ve encountered so many nice people but I appreciate it more than words can say. My faith-in-humanity meter is no longer hovering below empty. I promise to return the favor.

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11 Responses to “Thank You For Kindness”

  1. Kimberly says:

    I hope Caroline is feeling better, and I hope this holiday spirit and sense of community lasts a long, long time. xoxo

  2. Shari says:

    It’s amazing – and beautiful – how much kindness there can be in the world. Here’s hoping it will outshine everything else.

    I hope Caroline feels better soon!

  3. Meg says:

    What a lovely post! There is still kindness out there, and I, too, hope it lasts beyond the holidays.

  4. Stacy says:

    Aww, this gave me goose bumps! It really is amazing what a bit of kindness can do! I hope Caroline feels better soon!

  5. barbra says:

    I love to hear things like this. It brightens my day to hear this. Thank you for sharing. It’s going to be a rough day for the Bakers (a mean medical procedure must be done) but I hope we encounter kindness as well.

  6. Audrey says:

    I’m sorry she’s sick and I hope it passes by Christmas Eve. It’s good to hear that karma is snapping back at you, because you really are one of the kindest people I know.

  7. sarrible says:

    You might have. But I still like those little buggers.

  8. Erma says:

    It’s so refreshing to be reminded that people can be kind. I too get a lot of anxiety when I think of the worst that could happen with my toddler in a store. I’m the kind of person who doesn’t want to bother or inconvenience anyone so I sometimes throw out a lot of apologies even when it’s not necessary. heh. I hope Caroline gets well soon!!

  9. Amy says:

    I needed this today. I have been thinking less than charitable thoughts after my errands today. Feel better C!

  10. Sarah says:

    I e been on the brink of tears lately, too. I’m so glad you have such great people around you.

  11. Betsy says:

    Yep, goose bumps. I haz them! Lovely post. Thanks!

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